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Understanding Lump Sum Scams: How They Work, Who's Behind Them, and Their Motives

Explore the world of lump sum scams, from online romance schemes to business assistance fraud. Discover real-life stories and learn why we fall for these scams, helping you stay informed and protected.
Scammers use any means of communication to get to you, including your cell phone.

I want to pause for a moment from authentic travel stories to write about a topic that has been affecting some of my family and friends. It could happen when you travel too, but this is mainly occurring to them at home.

Lump sum scams are a troubling reality in today's digital age, capable of draining thousands of dollars from unsuspecting victims. I like to research these because understanding how they operate, the profiles of those who orchestrate them, and their underlying motives can empower you to protect yourself and others, giving you a sense of control in the face of potential threats. These brilliant people could achieve wonders for the world if they focused their brainpower on creating and helping the world. However, they prefer to be sophisticated thieves. I could not finish writing about all the current scams they conjure, even if I tried. Plus, new scams are invented daily. However, here is my deep dive into how these function.

How the Schemes Work

  1. Initial Contact: Scammers often initiate contact through social media, dating apps, telephone calls, SMS, or email. They craft profiles that seem genuine, often using stolen photos and fabricated personal stories to gain trust. For example, someone might pose as a military personnel stationed overseas, claiming they need financial help due to a supposed emergency.
  2. Building a Relationship: The professional ones are patient. They invest time in building a rapport with the victim and engaging in frequent communication to create an emotional connection. They may share intimate details about their supposed lives, use flattery, or make promises of a future together, especially in romance scams. This emotional investment can cloud judgment and lead victims to believe they are in a legitimate relationship. I have a dozy of an example later, so read on.
  3. Introducing a Crisis: Once trust is established, the scammer typically introduces a crisis that requires immediate financial assistance. This could be a claim of medical emergencies, legal troubles, or even a need for funds to retrieve a "locked" inheritance. Urgency is a tactic to pressure the victim into acting quickly, often without thoroughly considering the request.
  4. Requests for Money: The scammer will then ask the victim to send money, often through untraceable methods like wire transfers, gift cards, or cryptocurrencies. They may tell the victim not to tell anyone because they are in danger if dangerous people know of the exchange. For example, a professional scammer might tell a victim that they must pay a fee to them to release funds from a foreign bank account. The scammer might even provide elaborate, yet fake, documents to make the request seem legitimate—bank notes on letterhead, professional-looking signatures, particular forms, etc.
  5. Continued Manipulation: If a victim complies and sends money, the scammer may create additional scenarios requiring more funds, further exploiting the victim's emotions. The cycle can continue until the victim realizes they have been scammed or run out of money.
  6. Psychological Tactics: Scammers use psychological tactics to manipulate victims. They often employ phrases like "I'm doing this for us" or "I love you, please help me," which can create a sense of obligation. Victims may also fear the consequences of not helping, leading them to comply with increasingly outrageous requests.

Some examples

Online Romance Scams: A family member fell prey to this type of scam when he began communicating with a stranger who claimed to be in trouble in Nigeria. He was so entangled that he introduced this person via an online photo as his girlfriend. They crafted an elaborate story about needing help and wanting to come to America. Before long, he sent thousands of dollars from his tax return to assist her. The emotional connection formed online made it easy for him to ignore the red flags.

Business Assistance Scams: Another type of scam targets small business owners. A friend who ran a B&B guest house in Puerto Rico was approached by someone online who offered to help him secure funds for repairs following a hurricane. The scammer convinced him that a significant sum would come his way if he first paid a smaller administrative fee upfront. By the time I met him and told him what was happening to him after he expelled the story to me, he had lost thousands, believing he was investing in his business's recovery.

Get-Rich-Quick Schemes: Years ago, I advised a friend to consider a "get-rich-quick" opportunity he saw on YouTube. He was told that by purchasing a set of overpriced precious metals and rare coins within a specific timeframe, he could "win" thousands of dollars when he exchanged them later. Like my friend in Puerto Rico, this guy needed money for an urgent matter, and the scammers had built enough of a relationship with him to have all the details of how much he had and needed. The promise of an easy return on his investment was enticing, but it was a classic example of a scam designed to capitalize on greed and urgency.

Who Is Behind These Scams?

  1. Individual Scammers: Many scams are run by individuals working alone, using the internet to create fake identities and establish emotional connections with victims. They can be highly skilled at deception and often have experience in manipulating others. They understand human psychology and may simultaneously have the same scam going on several people.
  2. Organized Crime Syndicates: Some scams are orchestrated by larger criminal organizations. These groups may employ multiple people to run operations, using various strategies to target specific demographics. They often have sophisticated systems in place for money laundering and evading law enforcement. They are like a well-oiled machine with training on how to scam and all the equipment and mentoring they need.
  3. Profiles of Scammers: Investigations reveal that scammers can come from diverse backgrounds, often motivated by financial gain or, in some cases, psychological gratification. The power to deceive and manipulate can fulfill personal needs, leading individuals to commit fraudulent acts.

Case Study: The Story of Bobby

A chilling example of emotional manipulation can be found in the Netflix documentary featuring the story of Sweet Bobby, My Catfish Nightmare, where a woman from the Sikh community in England falls into a long-term online relationship with a scammer. She was convinced she was in love with another Sikh living overseas for nine years. He had a fabricated identity. Ultimately, she discovered that her cousin was behind the scam, using over 60 different personas on Facebook to manipulate her emotionally and financially. This case highlights how deeply individuals can get entangled in scams, often without realizing the extent of the deception.

A Message of Concern

I share these insights not to blame anyone but out of genuine concern for those who may fall victim to these traps. Awareness is critical to prevention, and I recognize that none of us are entirely immune to such schemes. By being aware of these deceptive practices, you can be more informed and prepared to protect yourself and your loved ones.

Just as I would hope for friends to alert me if I were ensnared in a scam, I want to spread awareness about these deceptive practices so that you can be more informed and prepared to protect yourself and your loved ones.

By understanding how these scams work, recognizing the motives behind them, and sharing personal stories, we can collectively protect ourselves and those around us from becoming victims. Knowledge is power, and together, as a community, we can navigate the complexities of our increasingly digital world more safely. We are all working towards a common goal of preventing scams, and your contribution is crucial in this collective effort.

Ask yourself, "Is it too good to be true?" Typically, it is.


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